Advocate Psychology for Special Needs Parents

 I have been a special needs parent for 17 years now. My "kid" is an now an adult. I've debated about continuing with posting and decided that I will, but veer more to the parental side. I want to respect my guy's privacy, but there are so many new parents starting this hell of a ride, as well as those looking at that post 18 years old transition we are currently navingating. I still have thoughts, things to say, and info to share.

Allons-y! But first, some humour. 

Here is my approach to IEP meeting prep and crafting email messages, requests, and responses (after the initial emotional outburst). Each day, every day. Sometimes continuously, from the time I wake up until the time I fall asleep where I am sitting.

With thanks to all the brilliant folks at Pixar.

Positive Altitudes

I had to look up at James the other day to talk with him. I know he's grown taller than I but he's been hunching over. It's been a rough year. This past week he has been in a chipper mood overall, and his posture is improving.

I am so glad. Regular middle school years are hell. Autism intensifies everything. My guy has a sweet side, and he is happiest when others around him are mellow.

Today's topic of interest: Angry Birds. Every game. Multiple levels. Accompanied by happy hums. He pops out of his room to tell me about it all.

I am enjoying it while it lasts.

Because today we clean his room and he takes a bath.

Thought for This Rainy Day

found on Pinterest. 100% accurate.

Yes, I can. And this is what I imagine James says a lot to himself. 

Because he is talking, in a regular classroom, and partaking in learning and doing. So much more than we were told to expect he could.

Never give up believing in your child and what they can do.