Spring Break - Better With Snacks

Went on the road with three teens for part of Spring Break. Destination: Santa Cruz. No, we haven't seen Us. I have fond memories of my undergrad time at UCSC. Both kids have been there before, and like it and the ocean.

The hotel room had a balcony with a view of the ocean. The weather was a fantastic sunny break between rainstorms. We spent an afternoon at the beach and enjoyed it. James did a lot of walking. We all slept great.

The hotel had a great continental breakfast buffet, which was a relief because James is being extra picky right now about what he eats.

The teen girls enjoyed bubble tea and shopping at the Pacific Garden Mall. James and I found our own places to visit, including the Pacific Cookie Company. I could tell this really hit the spot for James. He turned on his great smile and it stayed for quite a while. 

Out Like a Lion

This month started off just trying to push through until Spring Break. Then there was Spring Break! Then we got sick ...

Now in the last days of March, we have started ABA intake and at the most recent Triennial IEP meeting (which has been ongoing since September) I signed a release form for the school district to discuss placement outside of the public school district. Both of these developments make me want to roar - because it has taken a lot of work to make them happen.

ABA can help get James support to learn self care, from brushing his teeth to taking baths on his own initiative. It can include social events and opportunities. It means James and I get a break from each other. It means James gets help learning life skills to become independent.

Better placement for school goes a long way to my peace of mind for James' future, after disappointments and broken promises over the past 2 years.

Yes, I want to roar. Finally, help for James! Who is grrrrreat!