Autism in Numbers

For myself, autism is 90% slog, 10% elation at breakthroughs and successes, at least 25% heartbreak with setbacks, 62% facing how my child cannot interact with his world, 110% trying to figure out how he can engage with and be part of the world around him in a way that makes his life meaningful.

It's 5,642% paperwork. 9,000% questionnaires. $$$ in endless unimaginable extra expenses (large and small) to cope with the disabilities. Paper filing to the 43rd power. The square root of 223% normal life for me. Advocacy into the infrared spectrum of colour.

Underneath and running through it all: love, tears, humour. Music, weird things being said, car rides, obsessions over flies and leaf blowers. Serious campaigns for eating, self care, and impulse control. Mean people, nice people, and YouTube. Higher numbers of kids diagnosed. Reduced financial numbers in state and federal budgets.

This has been brought to you by a tough morning after several brilliant days at the new school that suddenly devolved into self-injury. I am not precisely sure why he decided banging his head on the floor was necessary. We have talked, and hopefully this has been helpful for him. I want to hold him in a hug and make whatever caused it to go away. But he's not that little any more. Instead, I try for calm, work with him and his team, and love him hard.

We've had 2 TBS liquid ibuprofen, 7 crescent rolls, 2 glasses of milk and 1 waffle. Today is a percentage of compromises: 30% school, 70% home rest, and 100% let's try again and make better choices.