I am lucky that we have ABA - literally thanks to Feda and other Autism Mom advocates - and a great school (who sponsored a symposium where I was able to meet and speak briefly with Feda). Also the support of family and friends. But still I am way short of sleep and time for myself.
Elopement seems to ebb and swell with my guy. So far this year, it's been on high for extra long. The sofa has become my bed and have signs and bells on my doors to deter eloping. Many nights I feel like I am holding my breath in case I miss hearing something. I made sure my kids both had swim lessons until they knew how to swim and made sure to introduce them to the river and ocean so they know how to respect them. I memorize what he's wearing before he goes out the door and have photos on my phone to show in case he does elope.
My guy is generally sunny. He has a good sense of humor, and can be sneaky. He is kind to our kitties and helps with the chores. He is also 17 and wants to get out and explore.
I am still sleep deprived and have been for years. But so far, he is safe. Through fires, moves, divorce, upheavals, awful school settings, COVID-19 isolation, we are still here. Not everyone is so lucky.
Please take a moment to view this Autism Safety Awareness video to get to know more about autism. Then visit the September 26th site and read about tools and information you can use. It can literally save your life.
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