Tuesday, August 04, 2009

Tackle It Tuesday: School Prep

Accomplished:
* Wellness checkup for James, so doctor can provide health form/certificate for new preschool
* Got through 2 of 6 shots that James needs to be current on his immunizations. Yeah, we are phasing them in!
* Online registration, so I can take classes (and hopefully receive day care assistance), keep up my skills, and qualify for a student ID so I can upgrade some s/w
* Speech Therapy, so James continues good process and I receive help in prepping goals for his next IEP
* Sending grateful thank you to cousin for hand-me-downs, which virtually eliminates shopping for back-to-school clothes
* Grocery shopping, so we don't all die of hunger and malnutrition in the meanwhile


Still Need:
* Written confirmation that he will have his SHAPE assistant(s) in place when school starts in 2 weeks
* Clarification on who is James' new case worker at the Regional Center and more information about possible assistance with his day care
* Bus information; I must be crazy
* Delivery of completed application package for new preschool program
* Another drink


Okay, why I do it:
James in cardboard car

James looking thoughtful

Sweet Baby James

James loves Play-Doh

James goofing around


Monday, August 03, 2009

Monday Marker Monday: Dots to Distraction

James likes to play with pencils and markers. A little too much at times. I sometimes have to keep an eye on him to make sure he's not trying to decorate the walls. Or my desktop. Or the palms of his hands. I think you get the picture.

James favourite things to draw: Dots and circles:
James, taking a break after doodling


Oh yeah. He sometimes has to be persuaded to stop with a distraction -- like a snack. And a convoy!

PS: About the crayons? We don't even go there anymore. He likes to eat them like carrots.

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Sunday, August 02, 2009

Ahead of a Storm

I was catching up a friend on the kids and summer so far. Isn't it funny how writing a letter can put things into perspective for you?

I was gushing about the progress both kids have made over the past few months. That was fun, because this is a cheering section kind of friend. You know, the one that cheers you on when the rest of the world thinks you're nuts, and vice versa -- because you know & like each other so well?

Then I started on what I was doing, and realized that lately I am getting more involved with programs from which James has benefitted. Because they are in serious need of help and parental support. Despite best efforts, the state's budgeters have chosen to make themselves look good while in office at the expense of future generations.

Many people will be hurting and some good things were saved. Myself, I have tunnel vision, and it's called Education & Special Needs. We have paid into the system for decades and this is what our kids need Right Now.

Next year classroom sizes at my daughter's school will be 22 students per class with no class aide (up from 20 students per classroom and again no aides) (my mother taught for almost 40 years; what I have to say about this fiasco is a whole other post). Early Start funding has been slashed.

Here is the chilling thing, to me:
"The additional cuts Schwarzenegger made Tuesday also include $37.5 million from the In-Home Supportive Services program, $50 million from the Early Start program to screen children for developmental disabilities, and more than $6 million in cuts from programs for the aging." (link to article)

Early Start is what saved our sanity and gave James a crucial boost when we first were figuring out that Something Was Wrong. Our North Bay Regional Center (NBRC) descended upon us and put in a referral for a formal assessment for our son. While we waited 5 months for the appointment, they made services available to us that (at the time) we had no idea James needed.

Since then, I have heard horror stories of parents fighting for almost a year to get these services, as well as the immense benefits of receiving early intervention before the age of 3, due to how the brain grows and absorbs information.
" ... the earlier the diagnosis of ASD is made, the earlier needed interventions can begin. Evidence over the last 15 years indicates that intensive early intervention in optimal educational settings for at least 2 years during the preschool years results in improved outcomes in most young children with ASD." (link to source)

I have a hard time believing that knowing what they do now, the governor and legislators have cut funding to an effective program that can have its best impact on a person's life, as well as that of their family.

James was first assessed by his pediatrician at 18 months, and we were told he was in the range of normal. I was told that again at 2 years, but I insisted on a referral being called in. He was first assessed by the NBRC at age 2 years, 4 months. He was almost 3 by the time he was formally diagnosed with Autistic Disorder, and at a higher level than any of his therapists suspected. His therapist didn't know if he'd be verbal or non-verbal.

Flash forward to a year after his initial NBRC assessment. His preschool teacher commented she had never seen a child progress so quickly in so short a time.

This is why I get shivers reading about our current budget crisis. I feel like we are just barely outrunning a big storm. But what about the others who are caught up in it now? And will not receive the services they should?

I see misery and sadness of families, frustration from the kids, and costs to us all about 15 years down the road that are, in a word SHAMEFUL.

Saturday, August 01, 2009

SOOC Saturday: Dino Pet

A boy and his dinosaur, awwww, what could be better?
James and pet dino


The Slurping Life is on hiatus, but you can check out past SOOC Saturday entries there!

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Friday, July 31, 2009

Dino-mite!

We visited the Sonoma County Fair today. Oh my goodness, it was wonderful! They had a fantastic theme this year: Dinosaurs! (Okay, it's formally called "The Fair Before Time")

My favourite was the Hall of Flowers. It was truly amazing this year. My daughter adored the midway rides and the small dog races. James loved Clo the Cow and Dinosaur Island (aka the Reptile pavilion).

Dinosaur Island was very cool. They had all sorts of fascinating creatures on display, as well as mock dino skulls and heads. James really loved the heads. He saw a teen-age girl putting her hand inside one of the dinosaurs' mouths and squeal for her friends. He thought that must be pretty neat:
James puts his hand in the dino mouth

Because he kept doing it!
James gives the dino his hand again


And when he got bored, he stuck his entire head in:
James sticks his head in the dino mouth


Boys!

PS: Does anyone else remember J.J. and Good Times?

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Go Pictures

"Go pictures?" is James' way of asking if he can use the computer. Both he and his sister love to play games on a laptop:
kids on a laptop, aka go pictures


In addition to the Curious George games, he also loves Clifford, Blues Clues YoGabbaGabba and Ni Hao, Kai-Lan. He will purposely do things the wrong way if he likes the sound effect. It's all about the fun. And pushing buttons. And silliness. And being able to do something with Big Sister.

James knows how to use bookmarks, and that they are different on Daddy's and Mommy's laptops. He navigates with ease. The one thing he hasn't been able to do (yet) is Click/drag/drop. Oh, but I am sure that is just around the corner.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Special Exposure & Wordless Wednesday: Big!

Can there be anything more fun than the park on a summer afternoon?
I submit that there is not!
James laughing


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